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Aug. 15th, 2004 03:08 pmI take it back. It looks like the deathmatch will come soon, if ever.
So my friend Ashley gets back from a christian camp where some of thing she was being told, "almost physically were hurting me," and her boyfriend is completely a jerk to her. So she calls me, crying, at 10:40 at night, and she says that on Saturday Aric would have, "killed her (me) if Max wasn't there".
He's impossible! He's like a brick wall, I'm completely unable to read him. And I'm an empath too, so this is really serious if I couldn't pick up on this.
So Ashley has called me, is sobbing uncontrollably on the phone, and all I can do is call healing energy to her to comfort her. As I told her once she calmed down and was darkly humorous, "I hate to say I told you so...". But she acknowledged that this is getting bad, and I am not going to let him get away with this. He hurt her, and I can't forgive him for that.
But he won't even say that he's hurt her, he's in complete denial. He's tired of being called evil, but he's doing nothing to change himself or find the root of it. I did fight him once, over 400 years ago, when I tried to get this out of him. But I nearly killed him, so I stopped knowing it wouldn't do any good.
But I have to stop this now. I don't want to kill him (even though frankly I'm tempted, and Ashley was joking about how we would torture him; "Let's see, in terms of casteration, which would work better: Lighter fluid and matches or steel toed boots?").
I need time to think. I know the only way to fix this is to make him face what he is. And for that, I need to make sure he can't hurt me. I guess that's where Max comes in. I know how I can make him face himself, but I just don't know if I'm strong enough to do it.
I'll try to figure this out with Ashley tommarrow when she sleeps over.
So my friend Ashley gets back from a christian camp where some of thing she was being told, "almost physically were hurting me," and her boyfriend is completely a jerk to her. So she calls me, crying, at 10:40 at night, and she says that on Saturday Aric would have, "killed her (me) if Max wasn't there".
He's impossible! He's like a brick wall, I'm completely unable to read him. And I'm an empath too, so this is really serious if I couldn't pick up on this.
So Ashley has called me, is sobbing uncontrollably on the phone, and all I can do is call healing energy to her to comfort her. As I told her once she calmed down and was darkly humorous, "I hate to say I told you so...". But she acknowledged that this is getting bad, and I am not going to let him get away with this. He hurt her, and I can't forgive him for that.
But he won't even say that he's hurt her, he's in complete denial. He's tired of being called evil, but he's doing nothing to change himself or find the root of it. I did fight him once, over 400 years ago, when I tried to get this out of him. But I nearly killed him, so I stopped knowing it wouldn't do any good.
But I have to stop this now. I don't want to kill him (even though frankly I'm tempted, and Ashley was joking about how we would torture him; "Let's see, in terms of casteration, which would work better: Lighter fluid and matches or steel toed boots?").
I need time to think. I know the only way to fix this is to make him face what he is. And for that, I need to make sure he can't hurt me. I guess that's where Max comes in. I know how I can make him face himself, but I just don't know if I'm strong enough to do it.
I'll try to figure this out with Ashley tommarrow when she sleeps over.
